Below is a list of over one hundred words that describe gender. Many are used both in pride and as slurs; i’ve culled all of them from places where they were used as the former. So if i haven’t seen a word (re)claimed, it’s not here.

If you know of other terms, please let me know so i can add them.
I hope you find this list to be inspiring and thought-provoking. If you see something here that fits you, all the better. We have moved so far past that boring man/woman, masculine/feminine binary!
- Agender(ed)
- Ambigendered
- AndroButch
- AndroDyke
- AndroFag
- AndroFem
- AndroFemButch
- Androgyne
- Androgynous
- Bear
- Bearded female
- Bigendered
- Bless-gendered
- Boi
- Boidyke
- Boy dyke
- Boy girl
- Boychick
- Butch
- Butch dyke
- Byke
- Chick with a dick
- Cross-dresser
- Crossgendered
- Demiboy
- Demigender
- Demigirl
- Drag king
- Drag queen
- Drag queer
- Enby/enbie (as in “n-b” for “non-binary”)
- Epicene
- Eunuch
- Female guy
- Female impersonator
- Femme
- Femme queen
- FTF/F2F
- FTM/F2M
- FTMTF (female to male to female)
- Gender-atypical
- Gender-bender
- Gender blender
- Gender-blessed
- Gender complex
- Gender-confused
- Gender-confusing
- Gender-creative
- Gender-deviant
- Gender-different
- Gender elusive
- Gender-enhanced
- Gender-fluid
- Gender flux
- Gender-gifted
- Gender fucked
- Gender outlaw
- Gender subversive
- Gender-variant
- Gender warrior
- Genderfree
- Genderfucker
- Gendernull
- Genderqueer
- Gendertrash
- Girl boy
- Girlfag
- Guydyke
- He-she
- Herm
- Hermaphrodite
- Intergendered
- Liminal-gendered
- Male lesbian
- Man/boy with vagina
- Midgendered
- More-gendered
- More-than-gendered
- MTF/M2F
- MTM/M2M
- Nelly fag
- New man
- New woman
- No-ho
- Non-binary/nonbinary
- Non-op
- Omnigendered
- Othergendered
- Pangendered
- Passing woman/girl
- Polygendered
- Post-op
- Pre-op
- QuasiFemale
- QuasiMale
- Shape-shifter
- She-bear
- She-male
- Stone butch
- Supragendered
- T-girl
- Third-gendered
- Tomboy
- Tranny
- Trannydyke
- Trannyfag
- Trannyqueer
- Trans
- Trans boy
- Trans girl
- Trans fag
- Trans folk
- Trans kid
- Trans man
- Trans person
- Trans queer
- Trans woman
- Trans-something
- Transdyke
- Transensual
- Transexual
- Transgender(ed)
- Transgenderist
- Transsexual
- Transvestite
- Tranz
- Trisexual
- Two Spirit
- Ungendered
- X-tra/Extra-gendered
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